Cindy Strong On Brenda Coleman
“What I appreciate most about Brenda as a co-worker and friend is her balance of compassion and clarity,” writes Cindy Strong in an e-mail, commenting about her experience of Ms Coleman when she had worked alongside her at the Consortium.
Ms Strong, who is currently Employee Programs and Development Officer for San Mateo County Transit District, adds:
“She has that rare blend of deep empathy and simultaneous understanding so that everyone around her knows where she stands and how she will help. I also admire her ability to look beyond dysfunction and see ‘what's really going on.’”
A Brenda L. Coleman Data Bank
High School
Vallejo High
College
Solano Community College
University of California, Berkeley
Teacher that influenced Brenda Coleman the most
Mr. Ennis, Vallejo High School Biology Teacher
He made learning interesting—he engaged
us by telling us what wasn’t in textbooks.
He really enjoyed science. He demanded excellence,
which was very different from any teacher I ever had.
Books that influenced Brenda Coleman
Bible, King James Version
The Stand by Stephen King—I could see
the characters in my mind. It has a classic
struggle between Good and Evil, and Good triumphed.
Favorite Philosopher
Jesus
Favorite Singer
Luther Vandross
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Tell us about yourself.
What makes you who you are?
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BC My different life experiences and the people who have been in my life, and the people who are currently in my life. What I do and what I’ve been through. So I’m the type of person who wants to help because I’ve been helped.
I’m a 54-year-old African American woman who has worked for nonprofits for the last 14 years. I’m a recovering addict. I’m a mother and grandmother—I’m actually a good mother and grandmother.
I’ve been told, if I’m nothing else, I’m real. (At the Jobs for Homeless Consortium) Anthony always told me that.
Growing up was good. There are six children in my family—three boys, three girls. I’m the middle child. And my mom was very strict.
After my dad died, my mom re-married, a guy in the Navy. We went across the U. S. six or seven times at least. It was an adventure—it was great!
I’ve always lived around family. As a matter-of-fact, we used to live on Walnut Street in Vallejo and three or four relatives lived down the street and still others on neighboring streets.
Growing up was good—lots of brothers and sisters and cousins, enough to play baseball.
Always had things to do. On Saturday afternoons, Mom would invite kids from the neighborhood and we would have a sock hop (dance) on the hardwood floor.
[From Wikipedia: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sock_hop:
"A sock hop is a term coined in the 1950s in the United States, following the growth in popularity of rock and roll, to refer to informal sponsored dances at American high schools, typically held on the grounds of the high school itself in the gymnasium or cafeteria.
"Initially the term referred to the practice of removing one's shoes in order to dance in stocking feet, typically to spare the floor from the scuff marks of dress shoes.
"In subsequent decades, with the widespread popularity of sneakers and other types of shoes the practice of removing shoes was dropped and the term began to be applied more generally to any informal high school dance."]
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What was your vision of
society that brought you to
the work you do?
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BC I think what started my vision for me was being in Recovery and having a strong sense that everyone should take part in The 12-Step Program, that everyone should treat others the way they wanted to be treated.
That’s what got my visions started.
Because if you work The 12 Steps, you are more truthful, you take responsibility for your actions, you try to work on yourself to be a better person, just like most religions emphasize you should. It (The 12-Step Program) takes its principles from religion although it’s a spiritual program, not a religious one.
My vision was to make life simpler and easier; become a facilitator/social worker working with homeless persons, addicts, veterans, families, kinship families, disabled persons—people who have had a lot of adversities blocking who they want to be.
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What do you think we
should remember as we remake
the world through the work we do?
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BC We should remember that we will be remembered through history—what we do will be noted by history.
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Has your vision changed
as you have participated
in the remaking of the world?
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BC Always. Continuously. As I grow, I notice different things. My vision is constantly changing and it gets mixed up. Sometimes, to be truthful, I don’t have a vision. Eventually, it comes back in focus.
When I was 25, I was just going on with the flow of life. I had no vision.
In the work I've done in the past 14 years, I began to see the impact of having a vision. Previously, when I was homeless, I did not understand what I began to understand when I began working at Jobs Consortium—how people become homeless, the resources out there, and how I could make a difference.
I’ve found that on each job I’ve had you bring the lessons from the previous jobs. I’ve grown so much in the last 14 years. I think I was asleep before that—it was a waste.
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What challenges do you
perceive in achieving your
vision of society?
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BC The real challenge I see is human beings not getting it. It’s all about me, me, me.
And that includes me. Trying to do better, though. We get in the way (of achieving our vision of society).
You want to know how? Because human beings are selfish. That’s really it.
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What needs to be done
to overcome these challenges?
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BC Teach. It will take generations. Teach each child so that they can teach the next child that though you are important, this planet is more important, actually.
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What pointers would you
give young people of the 9/11
generation as they work in
public service assignments?
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BC Have a vision of your own. And remember, when you’re doing public service, you are helping people and you’re helping society. It's not about you.
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What personal lessons have
you learned from the effect of war
on children in Africa and Asia?
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BC I haven’t experienced it personally—only what I’ve read.
War is insane; it doesn’t make sense. You can’t make someone change their point of view through war. Kids are just dying out of adults’ stupidity.
I have a simple philosophy of war: World leaders should fight in hand-to-hand combat on an island and their families should be there with them. I know that is really simplistic, but that’s what I believe.
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What personal and public lessons
have you learned from the
devastation caused by the
Asian Tsunami and the
South Asian Earthquake?
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BC I feel bad. I feel bad for the people it happens to. I’d like to help everybody. I also think that we have very powerful governments, although they can’t stop tsunamis and earthquakes, they could send more people and supplies to help. But I know they’re concerned about the cost of helping.
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What personal lessons have
you learned from the post-Hurricane
Katrina tragedies in New Orleans?
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BC This administration doesn’t care about Black people or poor people, people who are socially and economically disadvantaged. It is strange that they are allowing the taking of their property.
I love animals, I love pets, but I don’t understand how people can rescue animals before they rescue people. All life is important, I know, but I can’t understand that.
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How have these lessons changed your life?
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BC Made me a little bit more passionate about life than I was. I don’t usually watch the news, but I do now. I’m not paranoid about it, but I watch the news.
I’m giving more to charitable agencies. I don’t have a lot, but I’m willing to share. I’m willing to go out of my comfort zone. Before, I wasn’t, but now I’m willing.
About the Editor: San Franciscan Michael Chacko Daniels, formerly a community worker and clown, and now a re-emerging writer and editor, grew up in Bombay. Books: Writers Workshop, Kolkata: Split in Two (1971, 2004), Anything Out of Place Is Dirt (1971, 2004), and That Damn Romantic Fool (1972, 2005). Read all about his Indian and American journey at http://indiawritingstation.com/community-service-calls/. He helped found the Jobs for Homeless Consortium in 1988 and was its executive director from 1995 till its closing in 2004.
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